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      <image:title>Journal - What Counts as an Affair?Understanding the Different Forms of Infidelity - Infidelity can be physical, emotional or digital, and couples frequently disagree about where one ends and another begins. When couples come to us following a betrayal, one of the most striking features of the work is how often the two partners hold different views about whether an affair has taken place at all. One partner may experience what has happened as a fundamental breach of the relationship, while the other maintains that nothing significant occurred or that their behaviour does not count as infidelity. This disagreement is rarely a matter of semantics or simple denial. More often it reveals that the two people have been operating with different understandings of what their relationship asked of them, and discovering this can be painful in its own right.</image:title>
      <image:caption>The question of what constitutes an affair therefore has no single answer. It depends on the actions themselves, but also on the expectations each partner brought to the relationship, the agreements that were made or assumed, and the particular meaning the relationship holds for both of them. Understanding the different forms infidelity can take is often a useful starting point for couples trying to make sense of what has happened.</image:caption>
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      <image:title>Journal - Why full disclosure matters after an affair - Make it stand out</image:title>
      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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